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Make a Thankful List

This week represents to all of us in the United States the time we celebrate Thanksgiving. We often look at it is a day but it should an attitude that we show all year. This week while traveling, I took some time to reflect on things I am thankful for and how truly blessed we really are. As many of you, I fail at times to show a thankful attitude. As I began to list the things I am thankful for, I realized there is way more to be thankful for than to be frustrated or disappointed about. Here are a few things on my list. Though this is not all of them, maybe this will help you jumpstart a list of things you are thankful for.

Salvation
Forgiveness. Mercy. Grace. However you want to put it. It is something we often take for granted. Where would I be without the grace of God? I am thankful that I know Christ as my Saviour!

Family
I have a wife that loves me and loves God. She is growing in Him daily and making be better than I really am. We have four wonderful children who growing and learning life. We have the most awesome grandson in the world, Vandin, who has been a blessing to us that I could never have imagined. I have great parents who love and support me and gave me a Godly heritage. I am blessed in my family.

Church
We have the best church in the world. Period. Go ahead and argue with me…(smile please). We do have a great church with great people who are loving God and loving people!

Friends
If you have ever been through a time when friends were scarce, it will help you appreciate the friends you have. True friends are hard to come by. Treasure them.

Ability to give
Generosity is one of my core values. It shapes a lot of what I do in my life. I am thankful that God provides me resources to give and I am thankful that there are always opportunities to give.

Health
I preached a sermon recently on living healthier so we can accomplish our purpose here on this earth. I can certainly do better about taking care of my body, but I am thankful for good health. Many people I know are struggling with health issues that are no fault of their own. I do not want to take that for granted.

My country
Yes I know it was an election year and no this is not my turn to offer my political opinion. I have traveled the world enough to know that we live in a great land that has been blessed by God and we cannot forget that. I could have been born anywhere in this world, but I am blessed to be in the United States of America.

Vandin
OK, I know I have already mention him but let me be more specific. He has given our entire family something that we all love and enjoy. He has made me slow down and take time to do nothing but hang out with him. He has reminded me of the importance of life, the need to grow and learn. He has reminded me what a great gift children really are. I know I have to be a part of teaching him, but I think I am learning so much more. I am thankful for that.

My list is much longer, but I just wanted list a few and encourage you to be thankful. I challenge you not to just make a list, but to write why you are thankful for something. Be intentional about your thanksgiving. Make it an attitude not a holiday. We are too blessed not to be thankful.

Healthy Living is Spiritual

This past Sunday I spoke for the first time ever in my ministry on the need to live a healthy life. We took a look at what the bible has to say about taking care of our bodies. The verse that I really wrestled with all week was Romans 12:1 that says “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him” (NLT). It literally says that how we present our bodies to God is a way that we worship Him. I began to think about how I manage my own body. Do I take care of it properly? If I take care of it better, can I better serve God and be available for His service? Here are some specific ways that you can better take care of your body.

Rest
Many of us live such cluttered, busy lives that real rest is difficult. The fact that I am writing this at 2:30 AM is a sign that I struggle with this myself. The pressure and demands to perform at high levels often cause us to sacrifice our own health by not resting. Psalm 127:2 says “It is useless for you to work so hard from early morning until late at night, anxiously working for food to eat; for God gives rest to his loved ones.” Our busyness causes us to miss out on the rest God desires for us to have.

Eating the right foods
I think most of us recognize the need to eat better foods. We often find comfort or distraction in our food. When God first made covenant with the people of Israel, He set out certain foods for them to eat. The reason was not for punishment as much as it was for health. Someone may ask if I am promoting a Levitical diet and the answer would be not necessarily. I would however suggest that we revisit some of the reasoning God placed that in the covenant and make better food choices ourselves. Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:31 “So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”

Exercise
Some may consider this to be the least spoken about subject in the Bible where this list is concerned. But exercise helps us to take care of our body and reflects our discipline. 1 Timothy 4:8 “Physical training is good, but training for godliness is much better, promising benefits in this life and in the life to come.” Training your body is a good thing. Are there more important things? Possibly so. However it cannot be ignored. It is much easier to carry the gospel in a well maintained vehicle.

I encourage you to have a plan to stay healthy and live it out. Rest, eat right and exercise so that your body reflects your worship to God.

GO BIG!

Have you ever wondered why you are here? Why did God create you the way He did? Why do you have the talents and gifts that you have? Why were you born into a particular family or in a certain location? Do you think they were accidents or is there some intentionality to it?

God created all of us for a specific purpose and with a specific plan. John Maxwell says, “the two most important days in a person’s life is the day they are born and the day they find out why”. All of us know the day we were born, but many of us wander through life trying to figure out why. Why were you born? What significant impact were you placed here to make? You may have been born to be the President of the United States and lead the free world or you may have been born to be an exceptional parent to a single child and lead that one person well. Neither is less significant than the other if that is what God has designed for us to do.

I believe that God designed each of us to do something BIG with our life. Not big compared to what someone else has done or is doing. BIG as it relates specifically to the purpose and plan God has for you. BIG as in doing your best, above and beyond expectations, in the thing God gifted you for. You see we need great presidents and great parents. None is greater than the other. What is greatest is when we live our purpose exactly as God designed and we do it BIG.

Psalm 139 tells us that God intentionally and knowingly created us from the inside out. We are not accidents. He had your days planned before you even had your first one. Daily He thinks about you. So many thoughts that the sand cannot even begin to number them. If He designed you, created you and daily thinks about you, would it not be good it you consulted what He has planned for you? Your greatest fulfillment in life is when you live out what you were designed to be.

We all end up somewhere in life. The problem is very few of us end up somewhere on purpose. I invite you to join me this weekend at Open Door as we begin talking about what it looks like to GO BIG with our life. That is what God wants. Let’s GO BIG!

Lessons From A Sermon Series

At Open Door, we just finished up a series called “You Asked For It”. People submitted questions early in the year for us to answer in sermons throughout the summer. First of all, it was one of the most well received series we have done. Some of the topics brought new people in and our regular attenders wanted to be there as well to hear the answers. We tackled some highly charged issues that have made the news recently and answered some questions that were a little less divided. We have lots of questions left over and no doubt we will do the same type of series again.

For me personally, many of the subjects were challenging. From a preparation standpoint, it was one of the most rewarding things I have ever undertaken. As I look back on the series, there are some things that I will take away. Some I already knew and some I did not.

Don’t Assume Everyone Knows The Answer

This was something I noticed before I even began to prepare the first sermon. As I read questions as they were submitted, I realized that because I have been in church all of my life, there are some things or “answers” I take for granted. It is easy to forget that not everyone sitting in front of you on Sunday has been in church all of their life. Reading the bible may be completely new to them. As a leader and a pastor, I have an obligation to make sure that questions are answered and not assume that everyone knows what I know.

Challenge Your Assumptions

All of us are predisposed to certain beliefs based on our background, family history, education and even location. Several questions were asked about issues that I had to lay aside my own personal biases and preferences, and be fair about what the word of God had to say. For example, one of the questions was “Should Christians be involved in politics and is it a sin not to vote?”. You will have to listen to the podcast for the answer, but politics is something that almost every person has some opinion, if not a very strong opinion, about. And that would include me as well. But in order to be fair to the question and the scriptures, I had to lay aside my assumptions and opinions and offer clearly how the scriptures addressed the issue.

The Bible Is Relevant

There was not a single question that was asked that I was not able to find solid information and direction about. It is a book that is alive with truth to guide us and direct us in all areas of our lives. From issues that people have been dealing with for centuries to very current issues that seem to be new to us, God’s word is alive and fresh to steer our path. It is not an ancient, irrelevant text. It is new everyday for every situation.

Study Time Is Critical

As pastors, we often resort to preaching our “felt needs” or issues and passages we are comfortable or familiar with. Answering these questions forced me to look beyond a single passage for an answer, but to take in the entire counsel of God’s word. In the context of God’s entire revelation to us, what is the answer? This required a tremendous amount of study time. Instead of what does a single passage say about a single issue, I had to begin with what does the entirety of God’s word say about that issue. It gave me a fresh view of my study habits and challenged me, not just for this series, but as I move forward, not to box myself in or cut corners on preparation, but spend whatever time is necessary to present the gospel clearly for all to understand and be able to grow.

Every series is different and offers its own set of challenges. This series just had some specific impacts on me that I know I will carry forward. I am excited about how this will impact me going forward and how I have grown through this process.

Must All Hear?

This summer at Open Door we are doing a series called “You Asked For It”. People have been submitting questions they had for use to answer from the Bible. The questions have been great and I plan to follow up on some of them here in my blog. This past Sunday, the following question was submitted (quite lengthy):

“God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him” (1 Jn 4:16). In my view, all people born on to this earth are creations of God. He created us, and since God is love, he loves His creation. We are fortunate to have been born into a society that has the religious liberty associated with freely hearing and accepting the Gospel of Jesus Christ. If, however, I had been born in Pyongyang, North Korea, and my society dictated that I must follow Kim Jong-un, I wouldn’t likely be exposed to the gospel at all. Does God reject those people (even though they may lead lives that abide in love and compassion) who simply by being born into a Godless society do not accept Him as their Savior? If he does reject those who never have a choice, how can we say God is love?”

This is a complicated question and people have spent large portions of their life attempting to answer these questions. I did my best to give a summary Sunday of what I found. Feel free to listen to the full sermon at www.visitopendoor.com. I have had a couple of days to process “post-sermon” and I want to share a few thoughts. As I told you Sunday, there are some things the Bible is not clear on. As I have thought more on this, what I think is best is for us to concentrate on the things that we know and can address. So let me remind us of those things.

Jesus is the answer
As Christians, we believe Jesus Christ is the hope for this lost world. No matter where you may live and what situation you find yourself in, Jesus Christ is our only salvation. All of our efforts and work must center around Him.

We must share

As Jesus left this earth, He charged all of us to spread the gospel throughout the world. We call it the “Great Commission”. Though we are not responsible for where people are born, we have an obligation to make sure they hear the gospel. Sharing the gospel in our relationships. Sacrificing our time for short term missions trips. Answering the call to be a missionary ourself. Giving to support missionaries that are spending their lives spreading the gospel. We have an obligation to spread the gospel.

Sure hope

Though we may debate what may happen to those who do not hear, there is a sure way to solve the question. When you accept Christ as your Savior, the argument is moot. We can have the assurance of salvation through Jesus Christ. Our heart as Christians must be committed to making sure the entire world has that hope.

I encourage you to join me doing our part in offering Jesus Christ to the world, and leave the things we cannot answer to God. He is holy, righteous, faithful and full of mercy. We know He will do His part. Have a blessed week!!

Learning How To Serve From Others

For the last three years I have made two trips per year to Venezuela to teach leadership for EQUIP. I have had the privilege of spending time with hundreds of leaders from this country that are making a difference in churches, businesses and many local organizations. With EQUIP, we are teaching John Maxwell’s material from books he has written. There are four separate conference locations here in Venezuela and I have had the privilege to speak at three of those. I have visited with churches, met with pastors and business leaders, eaten with families and had the opportunity to build many relationships that will last my life time. Though I am the one that comes here to teach, I always leave having learned something and I am always inspired to be a better leader where I serve. There are several things I have noticed that I want to share with you that I hope will inspire you as well.

I have spent the most time in four churches here in Venezuela. Two of them are relatively new church plants and the other two churches have been established for many years. All four of them are thriving and growing and affecting their community. The insights I will share here do not just apply to the newer churches or just to the older churches. It is a culture that these successful churches have cultivated in their community of believers.

Serving without complaining

Each of these churches have high capacity volunteers, in large numbers, that serve gladly without complaining. The spirit they serve with is infectious. These people work other jobs during the week, but they tirelessly work to build the kingdom. Each of these churches have multiple services. The smallest of the 4 has about 300 people and the largest has over 6,000 people. Their volunteers serve multiple services, stay on Sunday afternoon for training meetings to build their area of service, work diligently to make the church the best place in town, do community service activities and they do it all without complaining. In all of my visits, I have never heard a single person complain about being tired, or having too much to do, or being “burned out”. I watched yesterday in all 3 services volunteers work like ants to present the church and Christ in the best method possible. I arrived at 7:30 AM and left around 5:30 PM and most of the volunteers that were there at 7:30 AM were still there at 5:30 PM with the same smile and energy they had when I arrived. This church had about 600 people in attendance yesterday and at 5:30 PM there were still about 150 volunteers there in a class learning how to be better leaders and how to make their church a better place.

All of us fall prey to complaining from time to time. My experience and my observations are that our organizations (churches, businesses, families, etc) are better when we serve without complaining. As we are inspired, we inspire others. As we serve others with energy, others want to serve with energy. Let us be infectious with a serving attitude that does not complain.

Serving with few resources

The cost of living in Venezuela is more than in the US. Things are not cheap (other than gas). They do not have access easily to affordable technology or buildings. I have been amazed at the cost of real estate or construction here. That being said, I am also amazed at what they can accomplish with much less resources than we have. The church I was at yesterday in El Hatilla, CCE, has moved to a new building they have purchased so the church can grow. They cannot use the building permanently yet because it needs a lot of work. They are setting up each week to have services. As best I can I will give you a picture. There is a large hole in the middle of the roof, maybe 20 x 20. The roof leaks in certain spots. But such volunteer effort has been put into the services that you almost do not even notice. Their music was awesome, videos excellent, greeters and ushers wonderful, children’s ministry great (since I preached it was probably just OK). They were innovative, creative and resourceful.

With all of our blessings and resources we have at our disposal, we need to use more innovation, creativity and resourcefullness to accomplish more. Instead of always looking for money to pay for more, let’s work to make more of what we have.

Serving to lead and leading to serve

My final observation is this: they serve to lead and they lead to serve. These churches are serving so diligently because they have such a focus to lead their communities to Christ. Everything they do is focused like a laser to reach people for the kingdom. Not only do they serve to lead, but they lead to serve. What I mean by that is they are hungry to become better leaders so they can serve better. I see pastors who are already doing more than me and pastoring churches many times larger than mine or running businesses much larger than mine, sit and listen and take notes so they can grow as a leader. They are not satisfied to stay where they, no matter how much they have achieved. They desire to grow and be better leaders so they can be better servants.

I want to learn everyday. I want to become a better leader so I can become a better servant. I want to serve to lead and lead to serve. My challenge to you is to always be growing as a leader. As you grow as a leader, you become a better servant.

My prayer is that all of us will learn to serve without complaining, make more with what we already have and we learn to always grow as a leader so we become better servants!

First Service

At Open Door, we are in the middle of a series that covers the last part of our purpose statement, “Leading the world to God through service”. We are discovering what it looks like to serve others. Why is serving the most effective way to lead others to Christ? This week we are going to examine what it looks like to serve at home. Often people only see the good deeds that we do for others, but they do not know our faults and our failures. Sometimes that can obscure our own view of ourselves and we think we are better or worse than we really are. The issue I am wrestling with this week is what does it look like to serve at home where good deeds cannot mask or hide our failings.

In Genesis 2 it is recorded that God saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone, so God created for Adam a “helpmate”. Someone who would come along beside Adam and help him and he would help her. The intent was that they would serve one another. As I read these verses this week, I pondered what serving one another in our marital relationships should look like. Three things were stated that I want to help us apply.

INSIDE
Adam said this is bone from my bone. Bones are necessary things, but we prefer not to see them. When the inside stuff gets on the outside, we have real problems. In marriage, we all have inside needs. Things that can’t be seen, but still where we need to serve each other. This area is usually more important to women. There are so many unseen things in relationships that require attention. Our emotions. Our thoughts. Our attitudes. Our desires. Our dreams, hopes and plans. For our relationships to prosper it will require us to pay attention to these needs. It is often difficult to serve things that you cannot see, but we all have “inside” needs that we should focus on serving.

OUTSIDE
Adam then said that woman was flesh from his flesh. The things everyone can see. All of us have external needs. Often in relationships the woman will say that her needs are not being met. The response of many men is, “what do you mean?”. You have a house, car, clothes, food, anything you want. The reason that is often our response is men tend to master the “flesh” needs. Physical needs that need to be served. Our marriage relationships require that we serve the physical or “fleshly” needs of our spouse. This is not the entirety of service, but it is part of the way we serve each other.

BOTH SIDES
Genesis 2:24 (NLT) then says “This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” Men tend to be “outside” focused and women often are “inside” focused, but for us to serve well at home, it takes both sides being committed to serving each other. “Leaving and cleaving” as it has been called, is a commitment to your spouse that says I will serve your needs to the best of my ability. I may not always get it right, but it will not be for lack of effort. If two become one, then for the one to be healthy, the inside and outside needs must be served.

Take time this week to practice serving at home. When we serve well at home, we will be better equipped to serve the world!

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I currently serve as Lead Pastor at Open Door Church and I am a certified trainer & coach with the John Maxwell Team. I am also an Associate Trainer with EQUIP training leaders around the world. I currently own two businesses related to the foodservice equipment industry. I am a certified speaker, teacher and coach with the John Maxwell Team. I can offer you workshops, seminars, keynote speaking, and coaching, aiding your personal and professional growth through study and practical application of John’s proven leadership methods. Working together, I will move you and/or your team or organization in the desired direction to reach your goals.